Finding Your Full Potential
If you’re all sad or anxious, you’re not operating at full potential.
If you’re sad, you’re thinking about the past. You’re remembering what happened and wishing it went differently. You’re compromising the present by spending emotional energy on something that cannot change. The past is gone, never to return. Can’t unwind it, can’t undo it. Let it go. Bring your mind back to your body. It’s time to realize your potential, and the only way to do that is to live in the present.
If you’re anxious or afraid, you’re thinking about the future. You’re thinking about what may happen and imagining that it’s not going to go your way. You’re practicing failure in the future. It’s not possible to control the future, so don’t try. And don’t worry about problems that haven’t happened yet because they may not happen at all. Grab your mind and reattach it to your body because the future is not made in the future, it’s made in the present. And that’s just where you’ll find your full potential.
You operate at your full potential when you apply your full attention to the present. In the present, all your internal resources are applied to the situation at hand. If you are in a conversation with a friend, you are fully engaged and practicing full-body listening. If you are working on a problem, each hemisphere sees it from its own perspective all-the-while discussing it with its better half. Point is, you’re all-in. Point is, all of you is in the present.
When you find your mind wandering in the past, take a breath and bring it back to the present so you can get back to living at your potential. When you find your mind worrying in the future, take two breaths and head back to the home of your full potential.
Whether you find it in the past or future, just bring your mind back to the present. There’s nothing wrong with a mind that wanders. Minds wander. That’s their nature. That’s what they do. Don’t be sad and don’t worry. Just bring it back.
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Don’t mentor. Develop young talent.
Your young talent deserves your attention. But it’s not for the sake of the young talent, it’s for the survival of your company.
Your young talent understands technology far better than your senior leaders. And they don’t just know how it works, they know why people use it. And it’s not just social media. They know how to code, they know how to prototype (I think the call it hacking, or something like that.) and they know how things fit together. And they know what’s next. But they don’t know how to get things done within your organization.
Mentoring isn’t the right word. It’s a tired word without meaning, and we’ve demonstrated we care about it only from a compliance standpoint and not a content standpoint. The mentorship checklist – set up regular meetings, meet infrequently without an agenda, lie it die a slow death and then declare compliance. Nurturing is a better word, but it has connotations of taking care. Parenting captures the essence of the work, but it doesn’t fit with the language of companies. But that may not be so bad, because the work doesn’t fit with the operations companies.
In the short term it’s inefficient to spend precious leadership bandwidth on young talent, but in the long run, it’s the only way to go. Just as the yardwork goes more slowly when your kids help, the next time it’s a bit faster. But the real benefit, the unquantifiable benefit, is the pure joy of spending time with irreverent, energetic, idealistic young people. Yes, there’s less productivity (fewer leaves raked per hour), but that’s not what it’s about. There’s growth, increased capability and shared experience that will set up the next lesson.
The biggest mistake is to come up with special “mentorship projects”. Adding work for the sake of growing talent is wrong on so many levels. Instead, help them with the work they’re expected to do. Dig in. Help them. Contribute to their projects. Go to their meetings. Provide technical guidance. Look ahead for potential problems and tell them they are looming over the horizon. Let them make the decisions. Let them choose the path, but run ahead and make sure they negotiate the corner. If they’re going to make it, let them scoot through without them seeing you. If they’re going to crash, grab the wheel and negotiate the corner with them. Then, when things have calmed down, tell them why you stepped in.
Your children watch you. They watch how you interact with your spouse; they watch how you handle stressful situations; they watch how you treat other children; they listen to what you say to them; they listen to how you say it. And when the words disagree with the unsaid sentiment, they believe the sentiment. Your children know you by your actions. You are transparent to them. They know everything about you. They know why you do things and they know what you stand for. And young talent is no different.
There is nothing more invigorating than a bright, young person willing to dig in and make a difference. Their passion is priceless. And as much as you are helping them, they are helping you. They spark new thinking; they help you see the implicit assumptions you’ve left untested for too long and then naively stomp on them and give you a save-face way to revisit your old thinking. When the toddler learns to walk, even the grandparents spring to life and spryly support them step-by-step.
Don’t call it parenting, but behave like one. Take the time to form the close relationships that transcend the generational divide. Make it personal, because it is. And when you have too much to do and too little time to invest in young talent, do it anyway. Do it for them or do it for the company, but do it.
But in the end, do it for the right reason, the selfish reason – because it the best thing for you.
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Step-Wise Learning
At every meeting you have a chance to move things forward or hold them back. When a new idea is first introduced it’s bare-naked. In its prenatal state, it’s wobbly and can’t stand on its own and is vulnerable to attack. But since it’s not yet developed, it’s impressionable and willing to evolve into what it could be. With the right help it can go either way – die a swift death or sprout into something magical.
Early in gestation, the most worthy ideas don’t look that way. They’re ugly, ill-formed, angry or threatening. Or, they’re playful, silly or absurd. Depending on your outlook, they can be a member of either camp. And as your outlook changes, they can jump from one camp to the other. Or, they can sit with one leg in each. But none of that is about the idea, it’s all about you. The idea isn’t a thing in itself, it’s a reflection of you. The idea is nothing until you attach your feelings to it. Whether it lives or dies depends on you.
Are you looking for reasons to say yes or reasons to say no?
On the surface, everyone in the organization looks like they’re fully booked with more smart goals than they can digest and have more deliverables than they swallow, but that’s not the case. Though it looks like there’s no room for new ideas, there’s plenty of capacity to chew on new ideas if the team decides they want to. Every team can spare and hour or two a week for the right ideas. The only real question is do they want to?
If someone shows interest and initiative, it’s important to support their idea. The smallest acceptable investment is a follow-on question that positively reinforces the behavior. “That’s interesting, tell me more.” sends the right message. Next, “How do you think we should test the idea?” makes it clear you are willing to take the next step. If they can’t think of a way to test it, help them come up with a small, resource-lite experiment. And if they respond with a five year plan and multi-million dollar investment, suggest a small experiment to demonstrate worthiness of the idea. Sometimes it’s a thought experiment, sometimes it’s a discussion with a customer and sometimes it’s a prototype, but it’s always small. Regardless of the idea, there’s always room for a small experiment.
Like a staircase, a series of small experiments build on each other to create big learning. Each step is manageable – each investment is tolerable and each misstep is survivable – and with each experiment the learning objective is the same: Is the new idea worthy of taking the next step? It’s a step-wise set of decisions to allocate resources on the right work to increase learning. And after starting in the basement, with step-by-step experimentation and flight-by-flight investment, you find yourself on the fifth floor.
This is about changing behavior and learning. Behavior doesn’t change overnight, it changes day-by-day, step-by-step. And it’s the same for learning – it builds on what was learned yesterday. And as long at the experiment is small, there can be no missteps. And it doesn’t matter what the first experiment is all about, as long as you take the first step.
Your team will recognize your new behavior because it respectful of their ideas. And when you respect their ideas, you respect them. Soon enough you will have a team that stands taller and runs small experiments on their own. Their experiments will grow bolder and their learning will curve will steepen. Then, you’ll struggle to keep up with them, and you’ll have them right where you want them.
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To make a difference, believe in yourself.
When the mainstream products become tired, there’s incentive to replace it, but while sales are good there’s no compelling reason to obsolete your best work. Things that matter start from things that no longer matter.
The gestation period for a novel idea to transition to viable technology then to a winning product and the processes to bring it market is longer than anyone wants to admit. If you haven’t done it before it takes twice as long as you think and three times longer than you want. If you stomp on the accelerator once there’s consensus you should, you waited too long.
There’s a simple way to tell it’s time to accelerate. When the status quo sets the cruise control to “coast”, it’s time. When new there’s no time to work on new concepts, that’s coasting. When ROI analyses are required for most everything, that’s coasting. When forward-looking work is cut and cost reduction work is accelerated, that’s a sure sign of coasting.
As soon as you recognize coasting, it’s time to circle the wagons and create an acceleration plan. It’s not across-the-board acceleration, nor is it founded on people working harder or taking on more projects. The plan starts with a business objective and a commitment to add resources to speed things up. If the plan isn’t tied tightly to an important business objective it will miss the mark, and if incremental resources are not applied to the work, it won’t accelerate.
Here’s a rule – if projects and resources don’t change, you haven’t changed anything.
When you can feel the low pressure system in your body and can smell the storm brewing over the horizon, you have an obligation to do something about it. But moving resources and starting projects at the expense of stopping others is emotionally charged work, and the successful organization will reject these changes at every turn. And everyone will think there’s no need to change, but they’ll be wrong.
It’s will be tough going, but your instincts are good and intuition is on-the-mark – there is a storm brewing over the horizon. Push through the discomfort, push through the fear, push through the self-doubt.
It’s time to believe in yourself. It’s the only thing powerful enough to make a difference.
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There is no failure, there is only learning.
You’re never really sure how your new project will turn out, unless you don’t try. Not trying is the only way to guarantee certainty – certainty that nothing good will come of it.
There’s been a lot of talk about creating a culture where failure is accepted. But, failure will never be accepted, and nor should it be. Even the failing forward flavor won’t be tolerated. There’s a skunk-like stink to the word that cannot be cleansed. Failure, as a word, should be struck from the vernacular.
If you have a good plan and you execute it well, there can be no failure. The plan can deliver unanticipated results, but that’s not failure, that’s called learning. If the team runs the same experiment three times in a row, that, too, is not failure. That’s “not learning”. The not learning is a result of something, and that something should be pursued until you learn its name and address. And once named, made to go away.
When the proposed plan is reviewed and improved before it’s carried out, that’s not failure. That’s good process that creates good learning. If the plan is not reviewed, executed well and generates results less than anticipated, it’s not failure. You learned your process needs to change. Now it’s time to improve it.
When a good plan is executed poorly, there is no failure. You learned that one of your teams executed in a way that was different than your expectations. It’s time to learn why it went down as it did and why your expectations were the way they were. Learning on all fronts, failing on none.
Nothing good can come of using the f word, so don’t use it. Use “learn” instead. Don’t embrace failure, embrace learning. Don’t fail early and often, learn early and often. Don’t fail forward (whatever that is), just learn.
With failure there is fear of repercussion and a puckering on all fronts. With learning there is openness and opportunity. You choose the words, so choose wisely.
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Growth for growth’s sake isn’t the answer
Growth, as a strategy, is flawed. Draw a control volume around the planet and accelerate the growth engines: the natural conclusion – we run out of natural resources. Not if, when. Anything with a finite end condition is finite. That’s a rule. Because the world has finite resources, growth is finite.
Economists say growth is the only way. And the analysts say you’ve got to grow faster than their expectations or they’ll penalize your stock price. Economists say growth must be eternal and analysists say it’s never fast enough. The treadmill of growth keeps us accelerating, and we’re moving too fast to stop and ask why.
The idea behind growth is simple – with growth comes riches. As we’ve defined the system, when companies grow the people that own stock make more money. And in with our consumption mindset, more money means more stuff. Cutting right to it, company growth breeds bank account growth, which in turn breeds four cars, a 5,000 square foot primary residence, two vacation homes, closets full of too many clothes, three iPads, six laptops and five smart phones. And from this baseline, continued growth breeds more spiraling consumption.
If the consumption was curbed, what would happen to the riches?
Growth is better when it’s a result. Solve a societal problem and growth results, but instead of just filling the coffers, peoples’ lives get better. Make the water cleaner, people get healthier and you grow. And because you see the societal benefit, you feel better about yourself and your work.
Stock price increases when analysts think growth will increase. And increased stock price creates more wealth to fund more growth and fund more consumption. And, more consumption creates the right conditions for more growth.
What would happen if there was no growth?
If we were content with what we have, flat sales wouldn’t be a problem because we’d not need to consume more. And if we didn’t need to consume more we’d be happy with the money we make. No growth would be no problem.
Today, increased productivity is used to support increased sales. The incremental capacity (more units per hour) provides more products so more can be sold which creates growth. But in a “no growth” universe where growth is prohibited, instead of selling more, people would work less. Increase productivity by 25% and instead of working five days a week, everyone works four. That’s hard to imagine, but the numbers work. Instead of more money, we’d have more time.
Money isn’t finite, but time is. If we can learn to see time as something more valuable than money, maybe things can turn around. If we can see a growth in leisure time as some twisted form of consumption, maybe that would make it okay to spend more time doing the things we want to do.
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Scarcity and Abundance
Supply and demand have been joined at the hip since the beginning. When demand is high, the deck is shuffled so supply seems low. The fabricated scarcity drives up prices and shareholders are happy. When demand is low, the competition pushes each other on price. The abundance creates a commodity, and it’s a race to the bottom.
But this is old thinking.
Scarcity isn’t a lever to jack up prices or manipulate relationships, it’s an opportunity to spend your limited resources on the most important work and to build relationships. When you tell a potential partner you want work with them and you are willing to spend your finite resources to make it happen, it’s a huge compliment. Voting with your feet makes a powerful statement that you’re serious about working with them because you think they’re special. You are telling them that you will say no to others so you can say yes to them. Both know they’re part of something important and the free-flowing positivity results in something otherwise impossible.
Scarcity is limiting only if your mental framework thinks it is. If you hoard and hold tightly, scarcity breeds win-lose relationships governed by power dynamics. But if you choose the anti-framework, scarcity creates trust.
Played differently, abundance does not create commodity, it’s opportunity to show others you have enough to spare. In personal relationships, when you share some of your work for free your relationships blossom. When you give it away you are signaling that you have plenty to spare. It’s clear to everyone you are a geyser of new thinking. Here – take this. I’ll make more. These simple words create a foundation of trust which bolsters your personal brand. And because all business relationships are personal relationships, it does the same thing for your company’s brand.
Make it a commodity or give it away – how you see abundance is your choice. The old way breeds bare-knuckled competition. The new way creates a brand steeped in trust.
If you have scarcity, be thankful for it. Allocate your precious resources thoughtfully and with love. Spend your time with the people and causes that matter. It will feel good to everyone, including you. And if you have abundance, be thankful. Choose to develop closer relationships based on trust. Choose to give it away.
Happy Thanksgiving.
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Diversity Through Podcasts
Podcasts are short bursts of learning curated to please your ear. And with training budgets slashed, podcasts can be a wonderful and cost effective (free) way to learn.
The only way to battle uncertainty is to increase diversity. Bringing together people with diverse experiences lets us see things from multiple perspectives so we can better navigate uncertain terrain. But increasing your personal diversity helps too. Giving yourself new knowledge from diverse fields helps you broaden your perspective and makes you better at handling the uncertainty that comes with life.
The hard part about podcasts is deciding which ones to listen to. In my work to increase my diversity, I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts. Some were interesting and inspiring and others weren’t.
Below are some of my favorite podcast episodes. There’s a short description of each one, along with what I learned from them. Click the link to take you to the episode and you can listen to each one. No need to download. Just find the play button and click it.
Enjoy.
9-Volt Nirvana (Radiolab) — I learned about how the brain works and how it can be supercharged (with a 9-volt battery) to learn faster. I listened to this one on a long car ride with my daughter. She doesn’t like podcasts, but she was captivated by this one.
The Living Room (Love and Radio) — A story about how things can look differently than they are, especially when looking from the outside. I learned how our assumptions and the stories we tell ourselves shape how we see the world. This one is emotionally gripping.
Guided by Voices (Benjamin Walker’s Theory of Everything) — How Kant and Kepler both tried (and failed) to record the universal harmonies Pythagoras once heard. They struggled to make peace with the irrationality and disharmony of nature. I learned disharmony is natural and to embrace it. There’s a segment in the middle that’s not about Kant and Kepler that you may want to skip. To skip that segment, listen from the beginning and at 9:30 skip to 23:07 and listen to the end.
Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now (On Being) — I love Eckhart’s voice and his chuckle. I learned how I am not my emotions; I am the space for my emotions. And I learned about the Pain Body. That, on its own, was worth it. Krista Tippett is a brilliant interviewer.
Belt Buckle (Mystery Show) — A story about a long-lost belt buckle and its journey home. I learned how we attach meaning to objects, and that can be a good thing.
The Wrath of the Khans 1 (Dan Carlin’s Hardcore History) — This is a riveting story of Genghis Khan. Dan Carlin is wonderful – he sits you right in the middle of history. (Listen for two minutes and you’ll feel it.) I learned the power of personal will and how history changes over time. To skip Dan’s wonderful introduction and get a feel for the Great Khan, start at 19:00 and listen for 10 minutes. If you like what you hear, keep listening. This podcast is long almost 2 hours and it’s the first of a series of five on the Great Khan. This is one of my most favorite favorites.
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Is it novel?
Agree or not, companies think they have to grow to survive. (I don’t believe it.) For companies of all sizes and shapes, growth is the single most important forcing function. Is has tidal wave power, and whether you’re a surfer, sailor or power-boater, it’s important to respect it. More than that, when push comes to shove, it’s the only wave in town.
Companies’ recipe for growth is simple: make more, sell more. And some keep it simpler: sell more.
The best growth: sell new products or provide new services to new customers; next best: sell new to the same customers; next next best: sell more of the same to the same customers. The last flavor is the easiest, right up until it isn’t. And once it isn’t, companies must come up with new things to sell. That works for a while, until it doesn’t. Then, and only then, after exhausting all other possibilities, companies must create real newness and try to sell it to strangers.
The model works well as long as everyone in the industry follows it. But when an up-start outsider enters the market back-to-front, the wheels fall off. When they develop useful newness before you and sell it to your customers (new customers for them), that’s not good. And that’s why it’s so important to start with different — right now.
To help your company do more work that’s different, start with an inventory of your novelty. Novel work is work that creates difference, and that difference can be defined only in comparison with the state-of-the-art (what is, or the baseline system). Start with a functional analysis of your state-of-the-art. Create a block diagram of your business model, your most successful product and the service that defines your brand. Take a look at your technology and new product development projects and flag the ones that will create things that aren’t on your three functional analyses. (Improvement projects, because they improve what is, cannot be flagged as novel.)
Put all your novelty on one page and decide if you like it. (No way around it, how you respond to the level and type of novelty in your quiver is a judgment call.) If you like what you see, keep going. If you don’t, stop some improvement projects and start some projects that create useful novelty. The stopping will not come easy. Existing projects have momentum and people have personal attachment to them. The only thing powerful enough to stop them is the all-powerful growth objective. If company leaders learn the existing projects won’t meet the growth objective, the tidal wave will sweep away some lesser projects to make room for new ones.
There will be great internal pressure to add projects without stopping some, but that won’t work. Everyone is fully booked and can’t deliver on additional projects even if you tell them to. If you’re not willing to stop projects, you’re better off staying the course and waiting until you finish one before you start a project to increase your novelty score.
Novelty is good because there’s more upside potential, and improvement is good because there’s more certainty. One is not better than the other. You need both.
In the end, you’re going to have to judge if you’re happy with what you’ve got. That’s a difficult task that no one can make easier for you. But it is possible to use your judgment better. If you can clearly call out what’s novel and what’s not, you’re on your way.
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You’re worth it.
Why are you holding back? Why aren’t you giving your best? Why are you blocking yourself?
An open, honest disagreement can be a positive learning experience for both. If your intensions are good, everything works out well. I’m not sure why, but when your pockets are full of good intensions, the universe is kind to you.
But the universe’s kindness doesn’t manifest in the outcome you want. It’s a better teacher than that. The universe has been around a long time and has seen it all. It understands context. And it has a good memory. It uses both as input for its outputs. And to keep things lively, it often exercises its dry sense of humor. But more than anything, the universe is a good judge of character. And that’s how it decides how things should go.
A situation has no inherent emotional component. Any emotion attached to the situation is attached by you. If you feel fear, it’s not the situation. You’re afraid. Things aren’t scary, you make them scary. Situations don’t hold you back, you do.
Fear is a protection mechanism. But from what? If you hold back because you’re afraid what others will think, you are protecting yourself from judgement. At the surface it looks like you are afraid of being judged by others, but that’s not it. You are afraid of being judged by you. But if your intensions are good, the universe will give you what you deserve. There’s nothing to fear. Yet, you block yourself.
You’re not afraid others will judge you as second class. You want to avoid the discomfort of judging yourself as second class. You don’t put yourself out there because you don’t want to be reminded that you don’t feel good about yourself. People and situations can’t knock you down a rung, only you can. You have control over how much love you give yourself. And it’s time to give yourself more.
This may sound silly, but it’s not – if you make a little time every day to wish yourself kindness, happiness and peace you will have more peace and happiness. You will attach less fear to situations judge yourself less and block yourself less.
Give it a try. You’re worth it.
Put your success behind you.
The biggest blocker of company growth is your successful business model. And the more significant it’s historical success, the more it blocks.
Novelty meaningful to the customer is the life force of company growth. The easiest novelty to understand is novelty of product function. In a no-to-yes way, the old product couldn’t do it, but the new one can. And the amount of seconds it takes for the customer to notice (and in the case of meaningful novelty, appreciate) the novelty is in an indication of its significance. If it takes three months of using the product, rigorous data collection and a t-test, that’s not good. If the customer turns on the product and the novelty smashes him in the forehead like a sledgehammer, well, that’s better.
It’s difficult to create a product with meaningful novelty. Engineers know what they know, marketers know what they market, and the salesforce knows how to sell what they sell. And novelty cuts across their comfort. The technology is slightly different, the marketing message diverges a bit, and the sales argument must be modified. The novelty is driven by the product and the people respond accordingly. And, the new product builds on the old one so there’s familiarity.
Where injecting novelty into the product is a challenge, rubbing novelty on the business model provokes a level 5 pucker. Nothing has the stopping power of a proposed change to the business model. Novelty in the product is to novelty in the business model as lightning is to lightning bug – they share a word, but that’s it.
Novelty in the product is novelty of sheet metal, printed circuit boards and software. Novelty in the business model is novelty in how people do their work and novelty in personal relationships. Novelty in the product banal, novelty in the business model is personal.
No tools or best practices can loosen the pucker generated by novelty in the business model. The tired business model has been the backplane of success for longer than anyone can remember. The long-in-the-tooth model has worn deep ruts of success into the organization. Even the all-powerful Lean Startup methodology can’t save you.
The healing must start with an open discussion about the impermanence of all things, including the business model. The most enduring radioactive element has a half-life, and so does the venerable business model, even the most successful.
Where novelty in the product is technical, novelty in the business model is emotional. And that’s what makes it so powerful. Sprinkling the business model with novelty is scary at a deeply personal level – career jeopardy, mortgage insecurity and family volatility are primal drivers. But if you can push through, the rewards are magical.
Your business model has shaped you into an organization that’s optimized to do what it does. You can’t create new markets and sell to new products to new customers without changing your business model. Your business model may have been your secret sauce, but the world’s tastes have changed. It’s time to put your success behind you.
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