Archive for July, 2020
Feel It All
In these trying times, when 30% of Americans cannot pay their rent or mortgage, is it okay to put hard limits on the amount of work we do or to take good care of ourselves or to feel good about taking a vacation?
With remote work, we commute less, which should give us more time to take care of ourselves. But, do you have more time? If you do, what do you do with your freed-up time? Do you work more? Do you exercise? Do you worry? Do you take the time to feel grateful that you have a job?
When you work from home do you stop and make time to eat lunch? Do you shut off the work and just eat? Or, do you eat while you work? Do you take more time than when you are (or were) in the office or less? If you take more time to eat than when at the office, do you feel good that you’re taking care of yourself? Or, if you take less, do you feel good you’re doing all you can to prevent layoffs? Or, are you simply thankful you still have healthcare benefits?
When you work at home do you attend too many Zoom meetings? If so, what happens to all the work you can’t get done? Do you attend half-heartedly and multitask (work on something else)? Multitasking is disrespectful to the Zoom meeting and the other work, but do you have a choice? To get the work done, do you extend your workday to include your non-commute time? Or, do you decline Zoom meetings because other work is more important? Is it okay to decline a Zoom meeting?
Do you feel good when you set limits to preserve your emotional well-being? Do you preserve your well-being or do you do all you can to keep your job?
And now the tough one. Do you feel good when you go on vacation or do you feel sad because so many citizens have lost their jobs?
Thing is, it’s not or. It’s and.
It’s not that we must feel bad when we work during our non-commute time or feel good when we take care of ourselves or feel thankful for our jobs or feel bad because so many have lost theirs. It’s not or, it’s and. We’ve got to hold all these feelings at once. Tough to do, but we can.
It’s not that we feel bad when we work through lunch or feel good when we go for a walk or feel happy when we do all we can to prevent layoffs or we are thankful we have a job at all. It’s and. We’ve got to handle it all at once. We do what we can to prevent layoffs and take care of ourselves. We feel it all and make the choice.
We attend Zoom meetings and decline them and multitask. We process the three potential realities and choose. The bad ones we decline, the good ones we attend wholeheartedly, and for the others we multitask.
We feel great when we go on vacation and feel sad that others are in a bad way. We feel both at the same time.
Or, as word, is binary, black and white. But today’s realities are not black and white and there is no best way.
If you’re looking for some relief during these trying times, give “and” a try. Feel happy and sad. Feel grateful and scared. Feel it all and see what happens.
I hope it brings you peace.
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Are you doing what you did last time?
If there’s no discomfort, there’s no novelty.
When there’s no novelty, it means you did what you did last time.
When you do what you did last time, you don’t grow.
When you do what you did last time, there’s no learning.
When you do what you did last time, opportunity cost eats you.
If there’s no discomfort, you’re not trying hard enough.
If there’s no disagreement, critical thought is in short supply.
When critical thought is in short supply, new ideas never see the light of day.
When new ideas never see the light of day, you end up doing what you did last time.
When you do what you did last time, your best people leave.
When you do what you did last time, your commute into work feels longer than it is.
When you do what you did last time, you’re in a race to the bottom.
If there’s no disagreement, you’re playing a dangerous game.
If there’s no discretionary work, crazy ideas never grow into something more.
When crazy ideas remain just crazy ideas, new design space remains too risky.
When new design space remains too risky, all you can do is what you did last time.
When you do what you did last time, managers rule.
When you do what you did last time, there is no progress.
When you do what you did last time, great talent won’t accept your job offers.
If there’s no discretionary work, you’re in trouble.
We do what we did last time because it worked.
We do what we did last time because we made lots of money.
We do what we did last time because it’s efficient.
We do what we did last time because it feels good.
We do what we did last time because we think we know what we’ll get.
We do what we did last time because that’s what we do.
Doing what we did last time works well, right up until it doesn’t.
When you find yourself doing what you did last time, do something else.
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Great companies are great because of the people that work there.
You can look at people’s salaries as a cost that must be reduced. Or, you can look at their salaries as a way for them to provide for their families. With one, you cut, cut, cut. With the other, you pay the fairest wage possible and are thankful your people are happy.
You can look at healthcare costs the same way – as a cost that must be slashed or an important ingredient that helps the workers and their families stay healthy. Sure, you should get what you pay for, but do you cut costs or do all you can to help people be healthy? I know which one makes for a productive workforce and which one is a race to the bottom. How does your company think about providing good healthcare benefits? And how do you feel about that?
You can look at training and development of your people as a cost or an investment. And this distinction makes all the difference. With one, training and development is minimized. And with the other, it’s maximized to grow people into their best selves. How does your company think about this? And how do you feel about that?
You can look at new tools as a cost or as an investment. Sure, tools can be expensive, but they can also help people do more than they thought possible. Does your company think of them as a cost or an investment? And how do you feel about that?
Would you take a slight pay cut so that others in the company could be paid a living wage? Would you pay a little more for healthcare so that younger people could pay less? Would you be willing to make a little less money so the company can invest in the people? Would your company be willing to use some of the profit generated by cost reduction work to secure the long-term success of the company?
If your company’s cost structure is higher than the norm because it invests in the people, are you happy about that? Or, does that kick off a project to reduce the company’s cost structure?
Over what time frame does your company want to make money?
When jobs are eliminated at your company, does that feel more like a birthday party or a funeral?
Are you proud of how your company treats their people, or are you embarrassed?
I’ve heard that people are the company’s most important asset, but if that’s the case, why is there so much interest in reducing the number of people that work at the company?
In the company’s strategic plan, five years from now are there more people on the payroll or fewer? And how do you feel about that?
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Why do you go to work?
Why did you go to work today? Did your work bring you meaning? How do you feel about that? Your days are limited. What would it take to slather your work with meaning?
Last week, did you make a difference? Did you make a ruckus?
Would you rather strive for the next job, or would you rather make a difference?
Ten years from now, what will be different because of you? Who will remember? How do you feel about that?
Who stands taller because of you?
Do you want to make a difference or do you want the credit?
Do you care what people think or do you do what’s right?
Do you stand front and center when things go badly? Do you sit quietly in the background when things go well? If you don’t, why don’t you do what it takes to develop young talent?
Have you ever done something that’s right for the company but wrong for your career? If you have, many will remember.
What conditions did you create to help people try new things?
Would you rather make the decision yourself or teach others to make good decisions?
Here’s a rule: If you didn’t make a ruckus, you didn’t make a difference.
Last week, did you go with the flow, or did you generate that much-needed turbulence for those that are too afraid to speak up?
What have you given that will stay with someone for the rest of their life?
Do bring your whole self to the work?
If the right people know what you did, can that be enough for you?
At the end of the day, what is different because of you? More importantly, at the end of the day who is different? Who did you praise? Who did you push? Who did you believe in? Who did you teach? Who did you support? Who did you learn from? Who did you thank? Who did you challenge? Who did empathize with? Who were you truthful with? Who did you share with? Who did you listen to?
And how do you feel about that?
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Wrong Questions to Ask When Doing Technology Development
I know you’re trying to do something that has never been done before, but when will you be done? I don’t know. We’ll run the next experiment then decide what to do next. If it works, we’ll do more of that. And if it doesn’t, we’ll do less of that. That’s all we know right now.
I know you’re trying to create something that is new to our industry, but how many will we sell? I don’t know. Initial interviews with customers made it clear that this is an important customer problem. So, we’re trying to figure out if the technology can provide a viable solution. That’s all we know right now.
No one is asking for that obscure technology. Why are you wasting time working on that? Well, the voice of the technology and the S-curve analyses suggest the technology wants to move in this direction, so we’re investing this solution space. It might work and it might not. That’s all we know right now.
Why aren’t you using best practices? If it hasn’t been done before, there can be no best practice. We prefer to use good practice or emergent practice.
There doesn’t seem like there’s been much progress. Why aren’t you running more experiments? We don’t know which experiments to run, so we’re taking some time to think about what to do next.
Will it work? I don’t know.
That new technology may obsolete our most profitable product line. Shouldn’t you stop work on that? No. If we don’t obsolete our best work, someone else will. Wouldn’t it be better if we did the obsoleting?
How many more people do you need to accelerate the technology development work? None. Small teams are better.
Sure, it’s a cool technology, but how much will it cost? We haven’t earned the right to think about the cost. We’re still trying to make it work.
So, what’s your solution? We don’t know yet. We’re still trying to formulate the customer problem.
You said you’d be done two months ago. Why aren’t you done yet? I never said we’d be done two months ago. You asked me for a completion date and I could not tell you when we’d be done. You didn’t like that answer so I suggested that you choose your favorite date and put that into your spreadsheet. We were never going to hit that date, and we didn’t.
We’ve got a tight timeline. Why are you going home at 5:00? We’ve been working on this technology for the last two years. This is a marathon. We’re mentally exhausted. See you tomorrow.
If you don’t work harder, we’ll get someone else to do the technology development work. What do you think about that? You are confusing activity with progress. We are doing the right analyses and the right thinking and we’re working hard. But if you’d rather have someone else lead this work, so would I.
We need a patented solution. Will your solution be patentable? I don’t know because we don’t yet have a solution. And when we do have a solution, we still won’t know because it takes a year or three for the Patent Office to make that decision.
So, you’re telling me this might not work? Yes. That’s what I’m telling you.
So, you don’t know when you’ll be done with the technology work, you don’t know how much the technology will cost, you don’t know if it will be patentable, or who will buy it? That’s about right.
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